Empathic Memory Default

Published November 28, 2016 by Enchantress Coco

Blessing to you all,

Empathic memory default. Do you ever feel as if no matter where you are that you are always drawn to a certain feeling?

Well I have and it can be a real pain. Especially if that feeling causes you an overload.

For example I work with three woman. One that is very passive and does not put out any exciting or invading emotions. The second is very self-absorbed and emotionally guarded. The third very dominating and her presence tends to take up the entire space.

Now being an empath, I know that I am drawn to the dominating people but it causes me to be demur when I am totally opposite. I am dominating in a happy and fun way and she is black and white.

All the same, I tend to remember a time when I needed to be around that type of feeling because I gave me strength, not in a good way,  now  I don’t need or want it . I can’t seem to get away from it.

So what do I do? I limit the time I spend around her and I do breathing exercises to calm myself. That type of feeling not only consumes the room it can consume you.

Do you fall into a default? How do you work it out?

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